I've always tried to be one of those people who LISTENS more than he talks. It's strikes me that a person can learn more about themselves and the world they live in if they listen. So whenever I'm meeting someone new or getting into a debate, I really really try to listen and learn.
I think also, one of the biggest reasons I've ever hated people is because they talk all the time and never listen and learn. That's one personality trait that turns me off so much. Man.